Another romantic film that I love is If Only (2004)

Samantha (Jennifer Love Hewitt), a talented young singer and song's writer, met the love of her live named Ian Wyndham (Paul Nicholls), while studying classical music in London. Unfortunately on the day they had a major fight, she's involved in a terrible accident, but when fate miraculously intervenes, her grief-stricken boyfriend gets a second chances to relive the tragic day, and hopefully change their destiny...

Ian Wyndham: I Love you.
Samantha Andrews: Ooh I Love you too.
Ian Wyndham: I wanna tell you why I love you.
Samantha Andrews: It's... It's raining, you know that right.
Ian Wyndham: I have to tell you this and you need to hear it. I loved you since I met you, but I wouldn't allow myself to truly feel it until today. I was always thinking ahead, making decisions soaked with fear... Today, because of you... what I learned from you; every choice I made was different and my life has completely changed... and I've learned that if you do that, then you're living your life fully... it doesn't matter if you have five minutes or fifty years. Samantha if not for today, if not for you I would never have known love at all... So thank you for being the person who taught me to love... and to be love.
Samantha Andrews: I don't know what to say.
Ian Wyndham: You don't have to say anything... I just wanted to tell you

Director: Gil Junger

Writer: Christina Welsh

Stars:Jennifer Love Hewitt, Paul Nicholls and Tom Wilkinson

Wanita dan Pria

Ketika Aku menciptakan langit dan bumi.

Aku berfirman dan jadilah.

Ketika Aku menciptakan pria..

Aku membentuknya dan meniupkan nafas kehidupan ke lubang hidungnya.

Dan jadilah pria.

Tetapi wanita..

Aku membentuknya dengan sabar.

Aku membuat pria tertidur supaya dia tidak dapat mencampuri pekerjaanku.

Dari satu tulang, tulang rusuk, Aku menciptakan wanita.

Aku memilih tulang yang melindungi kehidupan pria, tulang yang melindungi jantung dan paru-paru dan mendukungnya, sebagaimana begitu juga harus wanita lakukan.

Dari satu tulang ini, Aku membentukmu dengan sempurna dan cantik.

Sifat seorang wanita seperti tulang rusuk, kuat tetapi lembut dan mudah patah.

Wanita menyediakan perlindungan untuk organ paling lembut dari pria, hati dan jantungnya.

Jantungnya adalah pusat dari kehidupannya, paru-parunya menggenggam nafas kehidupan.

Tulang rusuk akan membiarkan dirinya patah sebelum ia mengijinkan kerusakan terjadi pada jantung.

Dukunglah pria sebagaimana tulang rusuk melindungi tubuhnya.

Wanita tidak diambil dari tulang di kaki pria untuk menjadi alasnya, tidak juga diambil dari kepalanya untuk menjadi atasannya.

Wanita diambil dari sisinya, untuk berdiri di sebelahnya dan dipeluk dengan erat.

Wanita adalah malaikat-Ku yang sempurna.

Wanita adalah gadis kecilku yang cantik.

Ia telah tumbuh menjadi wanita yang sempurna, dan mata-Ku terpuaskan ketika aku melihat hatimu.

Dari semua yang hidup dan bernafas, wanita adalah yang

paling mirip dengan Aku.

Saat pria berjalan bersamaku di hari yang dingin dan dia kesepian.

Dia tidak dapat melihat ataupun menyentuh-Ku.

Dia hanya dapat merasakan-Ku.

Jadi dari semua yang Aku ingin Pria berbagi denganku, aku membentuknya di dalam wanita.

Kekuatan-Ku, kemurnian-Ku, cinta-Ku, perlindungan-Ku dan dukungan-Ku.

Wanita adalah istimewa karena engkau adalah perpanjangan tangan-Ku.

Jadi,

Pria, perlakukan wanita dengan baik. Cintailah dia, hormatilah dia, karena ia lembut.

Menyakitinya, berarti engkau menyakiti-Ku.

Apa yang engkau lakukan kepadanya, engkau melakukan-nya kepada-Ku.

Jika engkau menghancurkannya, engkau hanya menghancurkan hatimu sendiri, hati Bapa-mu.... yang juga hati Bapa-nya.

Wanita, dukunglah pria.

Dalam kesederhanaan, tunjukkan kepadanya kekuatan perasaan yang telah Kuberikan kepadamu.

Dalam kesunyian, tunjukkan kekuatanmu.

Dalam cinta, tunjukkan kepadanya bahwa engkau adalah tulang rusuknya yang melindungi tubuhnya.

The Vow

(This is my another favorite romantic film...)
A car accident puts Paige in a coma, and when she wakes up with severe memory loss, her husband, Leo works to win her heart again. I still can't believe there's a person like Leo in this world :) :)

"Paige: I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness and to have the patience that love demands, to speak when words are needed and to share the silence when they are not and to live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home.

Leo: I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love."

Director: Michael Sucsy  Writers: Jason Katims, Abby Kohn (screenplay), and 2 more credits »  Stars: Rachel McAdams, Channing Tatum and Sam Neill | See full cast and crew

If I Were A BOY... (Beyonce)

If  I were a boy
even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
and throw on what I wanted and go


Drink beer with the guys
and chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
and I'd never get confronted for it 
cause they stick up for me


If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
so they'd think that I was sleeping alone

I’d put myself first
and make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she’ll be faithful,
waiting for me to come home, to come home.


If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake,
think i'd forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
you thought wrong

But you're just a boy
You don't understand
and you don't understand, ohhhh
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you wish you were a better man
You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you're taking her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


But you're just a boy

Foto Fenomenal karya Kevin Carter (Kelaparan Sudan 1993)

Foto karya Kevin Carter, yang diambil di Sudan pada tahun 1993.
Pada awalnya Kevin Carter berangkat ke Sudan dengan maksud ingin mengambil foto pemberontakan yang terjadi di sana, tetapi ditengan jalan, Kevin Carter menemukan seorang anak perempuan kelaparan merangkak lemah menuju pusat pembagian makanan.
Ditengah pengambilan foto tersebut berlangsung datanglah seekor burung pemakan bangkai datang, seolah menunggu makanannya.

Akhirnya foto tersebut dimuat di koran New York Times dan mendapatkan penghargaan Pulitzer (Penghargaan yang dianggap tertinggi didalam bidang jurnalisme catak di Amerika Srikat) meskipun dihujani banyak kontroversi.

Kevin Carter beralasan, dia telah mencoba mengusir burung tersebut sesudah dia mengambil foto tersebut, tetapi dia tidak menolong anak tersebut, dengan alasan konvensi fotografer yang tidak boleh ikut campur dalam konflik.

Pada tahun 1994, Kevin Carter ditemukan tewas bunuh diri didalam mobilnya dengan cara mengalirkan gas CO dari knalpot mobilnya kedalam mobilnya, dan meninggalkan catatan:

"I am depressed ... without phone ... money for rent ... money for child support ... money for debts ... money!!! ... I am haunted by the vivid memories of killings and corpses and anger and pain ... of starving or wounded children, of trigger-happy madmen, often police, of killer executioners ... I have gone to join Ken, if I am that lucky."

Here's The Man named Kevin Carter...

Definisi Wanita

Wanita adalah...


Orang yang terlihat lemah, tetapi kuat..
Orang yang akan melahirkan anak-anakmu, walau dengan penuh rasa sakit,
Orang yang akan merawatmu saat kau sakit,
Orang yang akan merawatmu sampai kau tua,
Orang yang akan selalu mendukungmu walau kau gagal berpuluh-puluh kali, atau bahkan ribuan,
Orang yang akan memberikan hidupnya untukmu, bahkan membuang egonya demi bersamamu,
Orang yang tetap setia mendampingimu, bahkan meski kau sudah sangat menyakitinya.. 

  

How I miss my campus' life..

I miss the time when my friends and I talked about silly things for hours then laughed..

I miss the time when I sang an annoying song with my bad cempreng voice for my besties..

I miss the time when I ate too much till can't move beside my friends..

I miss the time when on practical lesson we just played like children..

I miss the time when we ate whipped cream together..

I miss the time when we talk about our chef named Iwan, he's quiet cute..

I miss the time when we hangout together..

I miss the time when my classmate sang a song by ProjectPop (Ingatlah Hari Ini) in front of 545 mahasiswa/i with silly choreography..

I miss the time when I visited Nhui's house then found her  lappy is full of the new games, i can play for hours in her bedroom..

I miss the time when I visited Yussy's kosan then found packs of abon in her room and called it 'Abon Party'..

I miss the time when my friends and I found something silly about Rani Tamzil then made is as jokes..

I miss the times when Liana acted like a porn star with her big body..

I miss the time when Rani Oval and i went to campus together then talk about super dongo things..

I miss the time when on friendship night, Puti Sarah and I searched dresses together. And sent pictures each other..

And another sweet memories...
Oh God... HOW I MISS MY CAMPUS' LIFE!!!!

I'm (not) OK ~

I can't stop crying these days..
I become so sensitive, and this is not funny.. Really..
I think.. I'm just a little bit stress, I'm thinking too much.. My daily routine, problems, traffic, and many more..



I need a holiday!!!